The key to Effective Leadership

Written by Jimmie Burroughs

“Next to physical survival, the greatest need of a human being is psychological survival, to be understood, to be affirmed, to be validated, to be appreciated.”

-Stephen Covey

Stephen Covey was right on target in the quote above. Each one of the four human psychological needs for survival is an action of love. Let’s consider those four actions of love in connection with the key to effective leadership:

  • Taking time to understand others
  • Affirming others
  • Validating those around us
  • Showing appreciation

Taking time to understand others

“The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.”  –Ralph Nichols

Taking time to listen and understand is helping someone to feel loved and needed. Most people do not take the time or lack the patience or skills to listen effectively. Being a good listener requires learned skills plus the patience and desire to understand others. The payback for becoming a good listener in terms of good leadership is far underestimated; otherwise, there would be far more good listeners and leaders that are far more effective.

By listening carefully, you give others the feeling of being accepted, understood, and valued. It is more than just listening with our ears–it is understanding what is being said as well as what isn’t being said along with what is conveyed by gestures and underlying emotions. Effective listening requires not judging, reacting, or providing immediate solutions. The most effective listening is being a good soundboard.

Real listening is so rare these days that we don’t see many examples. What does it mean to be a good listener? The first step is to realize that it is not about you–it is all about the other person. The mind can become so cluttered with one’s own agenda until it becomes impossible to consider what someone else is saying let alone understanding them. Instead of spending 80% of the time thinking about what you are going to say and the other 20% saying it,  spend 80% of the time listening and 20% clarifying what has been said by asking questions. Fulltime listing requires being fully present, not mind wandering. This is difficult, since our own thoughts have a way of wanting to drift in and affect our concentration. Concentration goes beyond the words being said and focuses on what is not being said—reading between the lines. Remember, people rather be heard and understood than hearing your solution to the problem. The best solution is usually their own.

One of the greatest mistakes a listener makes is being judgmental. This will hush the speaker faster than anything and make them feel unaccepted. It is not our responsibility to judge or even solve others problems. It is our responsibility to listen, understand, and to uplift.

Affirming others

Effective personal development is a mater of lifestyle. It isn’t hard to develop a lifestyle of affirming others. By doing so, your own life will take on a new positive meaning.

Dr. Gary Chapman’s best selling book, The Five Love Languages, is a great resource of helpful ideas for affirming others.  According to the book, physical touch, time and attention, gifts, words of affirmation, and acts of service are love actions that affirm others. It is a love language of its own that can easily be learned and practiced not only toward those we love but also in everyday effective leadership.

The capacity to affirm others is God given. It is seen in little children who readily affirm those they love. So why is it that so many people feel un-affirmed?  It seems, in Western culture and many others, that the bar for affirmation is set so incredibly high that only the professional athletes, celebrities, and the most successful qualify. Perfection or near perfection should never be the measuring stick for affirmation. Ongoing affirmation is needed in order to encourage others to become the best they can. Affirmation is recognizing others for what they are and not for what they do. A person’s worth is not measured by their work.

Appropriately, physically touching others, taking time with them, paying attention, giving gifts, sharing words of affirmation, and acts of service are love actions that are well within our ability to learn and practice. These, indeed, are the key to Effective Leadership.

Validating those around us

“Validation–Everyone needs it. Hardly anyone gets it. Yet it is the very thing that most people crave. More than sex. More than money. More than drugs.” Michael Hyatt, author of the New York Times bestseller, Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World.

Why is so difficult to validate others?  Because there is misconception of who deserves validation. Only those who do great things should be validated. Wrong, humans should be validated. Validation can be as simple as making someone feel accepted, not on their accomplishments but because they are loved. God validates those He loves even when they are unlovable, so why can’t we, who are made in God’s image, also validate others without expecting anything in return. True validation is appreciating others for whom they are and not for what they do or what they have accomplished.

Showing appreciation

The following story was reported in the news some years ago:

The District of Columbia police auctioned off about 100 unclaimed bicycles Friday. “One dollar,” said an 11-year-old boy as the bidding opened on the first bike. The bidding, however, went much higher. “One dollar,” the boy repeated hopefully each time another bike came up.

The auctioneer, who had been auctioning stolen or lost bikes for 43 years, noticed that the boy’s hopes seemed to soar higher whenever a racer-type bicycle was put up.

Then there was just one racer left. The bidding went to eight dollars. “Sold to that boy over there for nine dollars!” said the auctioneer. He took eight dollars from his own pocket and asked the boy for his dollar. The youngster turned it over in pennies, nickels, dimes, and quarters-took his bike, and started to leave. But he went only a few feet. Carefully parking his new possession, he went back, gratefully threw his arms around the auctioneer’s neck, and cried.

Gratitude, (appreciation) said to be the rarest of human qualities is in fact one of the greatest. By learning to show gratitude, you become a member of the rarest group of humans on earth. The little boy in the story above could have gone merrily his way, but he didn’t, instead he showed gratitude. Hardly a day passes that we don’t have the opportunity to show our gratitude to God and those around us.

“It’s funny how, in this journey of life, even though we may begin at different times and places, our paths cross with others so that we may share our love, compassion, observations, and hope. This is a design of God that I appreciate and cherish.”

? Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience


The bottom line of effective leadership is caring for others and their needs. However, this is so out of step with what we see all around us in the modern world, for example, the boss who cares only for the company, the service givers who want all of our money they can get with the minimum amount of service, the husband or wife who think of their needs only. True, it is a dog eat dog world, but that doesn’t have to be you. The same qualities that characterize effective leadership are also those that create a meaningful life.

Jimmie-on-HOG-240x300About the author: Jimmie Burroughs is a motivational speaker and author who has been involved in teaching Christian Personal Development for more than 30 years. He is a dedicated believer in Jesus Christ and considers helping others his calling in life. His websites contains over 600 articles on preparing yourself for success through personal development and the things that accompany personal development.

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According to research, it takes only seven seconds when meeting you for the first time for most people to decide if they like you or not. For the remainder of the conversation, they internally try to justify their initial assessment. When a person we have never met comes into our presence, our brains start immediately processing information concerning them and then making a decision about them. We start to evaluate that person based on what we see, hear, and yes, even smell. How a person acts, how they talk, what they say, how they carry themselves, portray themselves, and even how they dress and smell, are factors for determining whether they are liked or not.

In reality, you are the one who determines whether you are likeable. It isn’t a matter of becoming someone you aren’t, in order to be liked by others. Be yourself, but practice things that make you likeable. The key to success in business and relationships is gaining the confidence of others; the more you are in tune to your potential for being likable the more likely you are to win approval and confidence. Here are a dozen actions, with a little practice, that will improve your social skills exponentially, twelve things you can do to make others like you.

1. Give a strong first impression

First impressions aren’t always accurate, but they are extremely important and difficult to overcome once formed. Appearance, attitude, and approachability are the AAA of making a good first impression. Appearance includes appropriate clothes, cleanliness, and neatness. Style in clothes is not an issue in most cases since there are so many acceptable styles today. However, clothes need to be appropriate for the occasion, clean, pressed and well fitting. Your shoes are the first thing noticed. Clean and polished shoes will give the greatest advantage to a good first impression. Equally as important as your appearance is your attitude. A positive, open and relaxed attitude, which includes a smile, friendliness, and pleasantness is inviting to others. It says welcome. Being approachable includes the first two mentioned but also includes humbleness, non-intimidating, and a positive body language.

2. Use positive body language

Your body language says a lot about you. How you feel, your attitude, and your confidence or lack of it comes through in your body language. Here are just a few characteristics of positive body language:

  • Keep arms and legs open.
  • Stand or sit straight.
  • keep your head up when talking to others.
  • Look others in the eye.
  • Smile.
  • Relax your muscles.
  • Lean slightly toward the person you are addressing.
  • Maintain a three-foot privacy space between you and the other person.
  • Stay calm.
  • Slow your movements down and avoid being fidgety.
  • Use your hands for gestures but avoid touching your face.

3. Talk in the other person’s interest.

One of the most abused tenants of good human relations is the failure to talk in the other person’s interest. Ask the other person a lot of questions about themselves, their work and their family, and avoid bragging or attempting to make yourself look good.

4. Avoid distractions when talking to others, like being more interested in what is going on around you or checking your cell phone.

The person to whom you are speaking should be the center of your attention. If you are looking around to see who else is in the room, it will give the person to whom you are speaking the impression that they aren’t important to you. Likewise, the live person-to-person conversation is more important than a phone conversation. Unless you are expecting an important life or death call, ignore your phone while speaking to others.

5. Be genuine

No one likes a phony. Be comfortable just being yourself. Putting on airs and trying to be someone or something you aren’t fools no one and makes you look phony.

6. Be passionate

Being passionate means feeling for the other person. Jesus taught that we are to love others as ourselves. Treat others, as you would have them treat you. Be loyal to your friends. Friends do not hurt friends or take advantage of them.

7. Don’t judge others

Keep criticism, blame, and innuendos out of your conversation. Helpful criticism is an exception, but all care must be taken to insure that it is done with the other person’s welfare in mind. It is not your responsibility to judge others and try to correct them. Most of us have a full time job keeping ourselves in line without taking on the responsibility of others.

8. Don’t draw attention to yourself

Drawing attention to one’s self fails to accomplish anything, but it can make the other person feel inferior, especially when someone is bragging about his or her own achievements. Instead, try to make the other person feel good about them. They in turn will feel good about you.

9. Be consistent

There are two avenues of consistency: Consistency toward self and consistency toward others. Consistency toward self has to do with being consistent in those things that benefit you, such as your health and well being. Consistency toward others has to do with making sure you do what you say you will do. In other words, your action matches your words. How often has someone said one thing to you but done something else? How did it make you feel?

The best place to start being consistent is by making sure that you don’t make commitments that you may not be able to keep. Be very careful in what you tell others that you will do. Rather than making a hasty decision, tell someone you need to think about it and get back to him or her.

It is a matter of developing consistent behavior in each part of your life. It isn’t easy and there will be setbacks and failures, but if your will is strong and you are determined, you will succeed.

One of the greatest banes of inconsistency is negative thinking. Napoleon Hill           called it “stinking thinking.” Negative thinking is an enemy to willpower. It disarms you and makes you weak and unlikely to be consistent. Replace negative thoughts such as I can’t do it with a positive thoughts like I can do it and I will.

10. Call people by their name

Andrew Carnegie said, “The sweetest sounding word in the English language is the sound of a person’s name to them.” One of the most important things you can do to cause others to like you is using their name. Learn how to remember names and don’t be afraid to call a person by their name. You don’t have to wait until you get to know them well. A couple tricks to remembering names is using association and paying attention to a name when you first hear it–repeat it over-and-over in your mind, and write it down when you have a chance for future reference.

11. Be pleasant

The opposite of pleasant is grumpy. Who cares to be around a grumpy person? Is being pleasant such a hard thing to do? Yes, it can be, especially if you are tired, don’t feel well, or if you have personal problems that you are dealing with. At times like these, it does require some objectivity and a great deal of effort to be pleasant. Is it worth it? Yes, unless you prefer to have others suffer with you.

12. Appropriately touch others

Touching someone during a conversation produces a chemical reaction. Oxytocin is released in their brain. Oxytocin is a neurotransmitter, which transmits a feeling of trust and several other positive reactions, which are directed to you. How amazing that a simple touch on a person’s shoulder or a friendly handshake can release a chemical that causes that person to like you. There are conditions however, touching a person at the right time, in an appropriate way, who wants you to touch them; otherwise, it can have the opposite effect. When you touch someone, you show that you care for them. The feelings that are generated between two people are as important as words when it comes to developing a relationship.

We all have experience the positive effect that likable people have in the workplace and upon the people around them. Why not become one of them yourself by learning a few people skills and practicing them.


Jimmie-on-HOG-240x300About the author: Jimmie Burroughs is a motivational speaker and author who has been involved in teaching Christian Personal Development for more than 30 years. He is a dedicated believer in Jesus Christ and considers helping others his calling in life. His websites contains over 600 articles on preparing yourself for success through personal development and the things that accompany personal development.

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Americans have always been confident that nothing could happen to the United States. After all, the United States is the greatest super power in the world. The United States has always been able to protect freedom and preserve social and political stability, guided by a genius constitution with all the checks and balances necessary to guarantee freedom, justice, and liberty for all. No doubt, the United States is an exceptionally great nation. Nevertheless, it is not exempt from all dangers.

In the past, because of over confidence, it has been easy to ignore warnings that might otherwise be worth our attention. As early as the 1980s, Paul Kennedy, a Yale scholar, warned that America was on track to succumb to the same fate as ancient Rome. [1] His warning was scary at the time, but it carries a bit more weight today when you consider the dangerous world of 2015 and the obvious moral regression of the United States for the past several decades. There are many dangers, but there are some that are alarming that could produce the perfect storm.

It isn’t necessary to invent scenarios for what the dangers might be; the precursors for danger are already in place. Here are Five Real Dangers Facing the United States right now:

1. Danger of financial collapse

The United States has an $18,195,242,281,000 national debt. From August 2011, the national debt has gone from 14.7 trillion to 18.1 in 2015. [2] When you put the math to it, the United States total income, in recent years, falls near a trillion dollars a year short of funding the national budget. Even more alarming, the unfunded liability now stands at $123,287,673,620,145 (growing exponentially by the second). Unfunded liabilities include Medicare (leading the list at nearly 80 trillion dollars), Medicaid, Social Security, student loans, Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, and FHA. [3]

In order to keep the present lifestyle of America afloat, the Federal Government must continue to borrow upward of a trillion dollars a year. Obviously, we are living beyond our means, which is unsustainable for the long haul. According to the law of exponential growth, without drastic changes, which seems unlikely with the present conclave in Washington, financial collapse is unavoidable and will probable happen in the near future.

America faces a financial dilemma because of years of bad leadership, mismanagement, and shortsightedness in Washington D.C. At this point, the Feds are locked into a seemingly hopeless predicament. With Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, and the Military occupying two thirds of the budget, what do you cut first? Can you cut out Social Security, or drastically reduce it, and leave millions of retirees homeless and starving, or do you cut Medicare and Medicaid and let the old die, or maybe cut the military and grow weak and defenseless.

2. Danger of the loss of the dollar as the world currency

The loss of the dollar as the world currency could cause the collapse of  the US currency. Contrary to what some may think, the real threat to America goes beyond the terrorists, which is the primary focus of Washington and the military these days. The loss of the dollar status as the world reserve currency is the greatest threat because it could render America powerless to defeat not only terrorists but defend against any military enemy. In his book Currency Wars:James Rickards (financial lawyer and consultant for the U.S. government) wrote:

“If the currency collapses, everything else goes with it… stocks, bonds, commodities, derivatives and other investments are all priced in a nation’s currency. If you destroy the currency, you destroy all markets and the nation.”

It is scary when you consider that country after country is already rapidly moving away from the dollar, countries like China, Russia, and Japan. Compounding the issue is that America has gone from being one of the most loved countries, after World War II, to one of the most hated, so there will be no allegiance to restrain countries from dropping the dollar.

How can we estimate the impact of the loss of the dollar as the world currency? The British Empire experienced the impact when the dollar replaced the pound as the global reserve currency, post World War II, which reduced Great Britton to a sub-world power and elevated the United States to a super power. No one knows for sure what the total impact on America would be. Obviously, it would be severe.

Why does it make any difference whether the dollar is the world reserve currency or not?  Michael Payne, in a recent article, outlines the difference it would make and some of the potential effects: “The demise of the dollar will also bring radical changes to the American lifestyle. When this economic tsunami hits America, it will make the 2008 recession and its aftermath look like no more than a slight bump in the road. It will bring very undesirable changes to the American lifestyle through massive inflation, high interest rates on mortgages and cars, and substantial increases in the cost of food, clothing and gasoline; it will have a detrimental effect on every aspect of our lives.” [4]

Venezuela experienced runaway inflation a few years ago; at that time, before they devalued their currency, a McDonald’s Big Mac cost $16.27. [5] Devaluating currency has its bad effects also. How would you feel if you awakened some morning and learned you were half as rich as you were twenty-four hours earlier; that, and even more, is what devaluation of currency could do to your finances. Devaluation is one of the first steps governments, in the past, have taken when their currency is in danger of collapsing.  

One of the most devastating effects to the American economy if the dollar lost its prestigious status as the world currency would be the rise in cost of gasoline. Some countries already pay twice as much for gasoline as Americans. Higher fuel costs would cripple the United States ability to manufacture goods and ship them long distances. The cost of food and goods would increase dramatically. The only salvation is if America becomes capable of supplying its own energy needs without imports. So far, Washington Diplomats, influenced by the environmental community, have blocked that possibility.

Some believe the dollar will remain because there is no other alternative, but they are wrong. There is already a ten year documented plan to replace the dollar as the global reserve currency. The IMF (International Monetary Fund) reported that “The Dollar Reigns Supreme by Default.” [They] . . . issued a report Thursday, Feb. 10, 2011, on a possible replacement for the dollar as the world’s reserve currency. [6] The IMF is a likely candidate for a new world currency (they are not the only contender), because they have a clean balance sheet, liquidity, and are far less leveraged than the U.S. and other countries. Presently, they are best suited to provide the world’s financial needs. Far from being a nice group, they are unelected and unaccountable kings, Dictators, and communists, probably with a few terrorists to boot. So what will the new currency be called? Calling the new currency “world Money” might be too edgy, but that is what it would be. That could be a precursor to a one-world government, which is a feature of the end-time.

What meaningful steps can you take to protect yourselves against the unstable dollar, massive federal debt, and the irresponsibility of the politicians? Here are some practical suggestions that make good sense for any time:

  1. Look to yourself instead of the Federal Government to protect your wealth and general well-being.
  2. Invest in tangible things such as precious metals.
  3. Have a reasonable store of food and water on hand. Extra can-goods are fine but they must be rotated since they have a relative short shelf life. Freeze-dried and dehydrated food has up to fifteen-year shelf life and is an excellent choice for emergency food. Moderation is always important. I feel safe with a few months supply.
  4. Be careful of which stocks you own. Some stocks continue to grow even in a downturn where others tend to bottom out.
  5. Choose your bank carefully. Some banks are far more likely to fail than others are. Some smaller local banks are much safer than the “too-big-to-fail banks.”
  6. Have a reasonable supply of every day necessities on hand: Paper towels, toilet tissue, tooth past, soap, etc.
  7. Have an extra month or two supply of prescription medication.
  8. Have a well stocked first aid kit, flashlight and batteries, and a battery operated radio.
  9. Avoid bank lockboxes for storing back-up money or precious metals, since they are accessible to the Federal Government and would be inaccessible to you if the bank closed.
  10. Avoid living in large cities, if possible, where anarchy and violence are far more likely during a time of emergency.
  11. Have a simple water purification system, which is available on the Internet but would quickly sell out during a time of emergency.
  12. Pay your debts off as soon as possible, and save money for emergencies, enough to tide you through a downturn, like the one in 2008.

3. Danger of the collapse of the stock market

Has the stock market reached a super-critical stage? Unfortunately, the answer to that question is yes. The value of the stock market is supposed to equal the economy, or the GDP. When stocks outgrows their value, it creates a bubble much like the housing bubble of 2007. A bubble can only stand so much inflation until it burst. At this point, the stock market is way over valued, and highly inflated. The difference in the ratio between the economy, or the GDP, and the stock market is greater today than it was before the last recession and even greater than before the Great Depression. Before the Great Depression, the ratio stood at 87%; today it stands at 203%. [7] Even worse than that, the global derivatives are ten times greater than the global GDP.

What are derivatives? “In finance, a derivative is a contract that derives its value from the performance of an underlying entity. This underlying entity can be an asset, index, or interest rate, and is often called the ‘underlying.’” [8] More commonly, they include forwards, futures, options, and swaps. Unlike stocks, they do not represent investments in anything. Even though derivatives are incredibly complex and hard to understand, a simplistic way of explaining them is that they are wagers or guesses on what may happen in the future, somewhat like betting on the outcome of the Super Bowl. In other words, they are a big gamble. Big gambles can either be lost or won. Why would big banks take such a risk, considering that five of the largest banks hold 40 trillion dollars in derivatives? The short answer is greed. Derivatives can pay off big. The problem is that the total holdings in derivatives are ten times larger than the total global GDP. As is the stock market, they are overvalued. Like the present stock market bubble, the derivatives bubble will eventually burst (and as sure as the sun is bright, it will happen). When it does, the impact on the global economy will be beyond description.  The domino effect of the collapse of the stock market will result in the collapse of the overvalued global derivatives, and the depression will extend worldwide. The loss of wealth could be twice that of the recent recession because there is much more wealth involved.

We need banks. It certainly would be dangerous to keep our money at home, but is your money safe in a bank? Doesn’t the Federal Government insure deposits? Yes, the Federal Government insures deposits through the FDIC for up to $250,000 in most institutions. The problem is the FDIC currently has far more insured deposits than money in its fund to back up those deposits. It has about $41 billion in reserve against $6 trillion in insured deposits. That would be adequate in moderate bank failures, but what if there were massive bank failures? In that case, we would be in danger of losing our deposits.

4. Danger of a long-term depression

Events often have markers before they happen. For example, you know a storm is intimate when you observe certain markers like a darkening sky, distant thunder, lightning, and wind. Depressions have markers also. Some of the same markers are present today that preceded the Great Depression of the 1930s. The Great Depression lasted from 1929 until 1940 and brought hardships on Americans that scarcely register on the minds of the present generation. According to some of today’s economists, including Jim Rickard, who outlines it in his best selling book “The death of the dollar,” the coming depression could last 25 years. You may find that hard to believe, but if you know your history, you know that there was a 30-year depression from 1870 to 1900.

America is past the marker stage. The fact is that depression has already begun. In the thirties, they had soup kitchen to feed the hungry. Today 20% of American households are on food stamps or 47.7 million people. [9] In 1933, unemployment peaked at 24.9%. Today the unemployment rate is actually 23% according to the true calculation, which the Feds do not use.

When the economy grows, so does employment; when the economy decreases, so does employment, which results in recession. The primary way the economy grows is when people spend money. The past year, 2014, was a dismal year as far as private spending. Part of the problem is that people do not have as much money to spend as they did in the past. According to a survey by the National Foundation for Credit Counseling, or NFCC, “A majority, or 64%, of Americans don’t have enough cash on hand to handle a $1,000 emergency expense. [10] The reason given was many spent their savings in order to remain solvent during the last recession. The rate in which people spend money is called the velocity of money. Today the velocity of money is lower than it was before the Great Depression of 1929.

The Obama administration says that the economy is back to normal. Do you agree when about 75% of Americans have no saving and are living paycheck to paycheck? Those receiving food stamps has doubled since Obama took office. It is estimated that half of the children born today will be on food stamps sometime during their lifetime. Every month around 49% of Americans are now receiving some sort of assistance from some government program.

Another prevalent marker is The Misery Index, which is the combination of the Real Inflation Rate plus the Real Unemployment Rate. If you compare today’s Misery Index to the Great Depression, it is higher. The Misery Index during the Great Depression was 27; today it is 32.89.

Depression creates a domino effect. People quit spending money. Businesses do not have enough income to survive and pay bills and loans; as a result, banks fail. Today banks have an estimated 60 trillion dollars worth of debt on their balance sheets. Banks fail when people and businesses cannot repay loans. If you remember, this happened in 2008, and the Feds had to bail the banks out. What happens if the Feds are no longer able to come to the aid of the banks? The Federal Reserve is at the point of insolvency. The only way the Feds keep their head above the water presently is by printing a trillion new dollars each year, which, actually, is as bogus as counterfeit money. Some believe that the American banking system is on the verge of imploding.

5. Danger of world war III

The next Great War, World War III, will be fought on three fronts, financial, cyber, and militarily. The financial war has already begun. Months before Russia invaded Crimea, Putin was dumping American treasuries to offset the Sanctions he knew America would impose. China has joined Russia in dumping American treasuries. If they can dampen the American economy, it will give them far more advantage in a future military confrontation.

The first major act of the cyber war took place recently when North Korea hacked Sony Pictures, which cost Sony 15 million dollars. Cyber attack is even a greater threat than terrorism, according James Clapper, Director of National Intelligence. [11] Defense Secretary, Leon Panetta, warned of a cyber Pearl Harbor. [12]. A cyber war would affect each of us since the cyber world is connected to nearly every facet of life from health to finances.

A Third World War involving the military is already seeded in the Ukraine. Arming the right-wing regime in the Ukraine with billions of dollars in advanced weaponry is presently being considered by the Obama administration. This seems like a good move to counter Russian aggression, but is it worth the danger of sparking a direct conflict between The United States and Russia that could lead to a Third World War? The direct confrontation between two nuclear-armed powers is a scary situation. The question in the minds of many is could the present conflict in the Ukraine lead to a nuclear war? According to Mikhail Gorbachev, the last president of the Soviet Union, it could. He recently said that a European war over Ukraine would “inevitably lead to a nuclear war.”


The road ahead for the United States is bound to be stormy. There doesn’t seem to be any redemption for it. However, there is redemption for those who trust in God: “Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world,” (I John 4:4). God is still in control of His creation, and He alone is in control of the outcome. That does not mean that believers will experience no effects of the coming storm. What it does mean is that regardless of what happens, we are in the protective safety of Gods hands. “And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell,” (Matthew 10:28). To learn how to claim your redemption from the coming storm: Click Here

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Jimmie-on-HOG-240x300About the author: Jimmie Burroughs is a motivational speaker and author who has been involved in teaching Christian Personal Development for more than 30 years. He is a dedicated believer in Jesus Christ and considers helping others his calling in life. His websites contains over 600 articles on preparing yourself for success through personal development and the things that accompany personal development.

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“Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.” Job 13:15

Have you had the feeling that someone you’ve gotten to know is true, loyal, honest, and genuine? I’m sure that you have. You trust them and it gives a good feeling; would you agree? Does it make you want to be more of that kind of person? Does it help you to understand why trust is so important?

Job of the Bible is a great example of trust. He knew God, but why did he trust Him so completely that his trust in Him could not be shaken even after he had lost his family, his health, and his wealth? The answer is because he knew that God loved him; therefore, he trusted God. It’s hard to talk about trust without including love, which is a prominent component of trust.

How do you win another person’s trust?  While there is no magic formula for creating the trust of another person, there are logical reasons why trust exists. Trust is a result of love. Love is treating others with fairness, kindness, and respect. A simple way to put it is that creating trust means expressing your love toward others. Expressing love is a personal and spiritual matter that requires caring about others, their well-being emotionally, physically, and financially.

Trust is important because good and lasting businesses rely on trust from their customers to keep them going. If you don’t trust a person, or business, why would you want to have a relationship with them or do business with them? Perhaps, there are instances when you feel that it’s necessary to do business with someone that you don’t trust. I have, but is doesn’t make me like it and I’m constantly trying to find another way to meet my needs without doing business with them.

Trust is important because it is the key to any relationship whether it is a business relationship or a personal relationship. I knew a person who had not trusted their mate for over twenty-five years because their mate had an affair. Unfaithfulness surely puts a damper on any marriage. Infidelity is an act of betraying the one to whom you promised you would always be faithful. It betrays the other person’s trust. Once trust is broken, it becomes nearly unfixable.

As I said earlier, that there is no set formula for building trust. Nevertheless, some things are necessary if trust is built:

1. Acceptance

Acceptance is allowing others to be themselves without being judgmental or trying to change them to what you think they should be. Non-acceptance is one of the greatest detriments to building any relationship. It is true that we may not understand why a person is what they are, but we must still make them feel accepted. My wife didn’t like aluminum Christmas trees and I couldn’t understand why. I understand now because neither do I. She preferred live Christmas trees and now I do also. Did she influence me? I’m sure she did, but she never tried to force her view on me. In time, I changed of my own volition. The “I’m right, you’re wrong” judgmental mindset must be put aside if there is to be true acceptance.

2. Commitment

There can be no relationship without commitment. What does real commitment entail? Actually, it entails a number of things. First, it entails accepting the fact that commitment is not easy. It may seem easy as long as things are going the way you want them, but what happens when hard times set in, and things are out of your control. Are you still committed to making the relationship work? Secondly, the relationship has to be more important than you always having your own way. Thirdly, you must be able to consider the other person’s emotions. Fourthly, you must be willing to work with the other person, which will require some compromise. Fifthly, you must convey to the other person that you will stay regardless of the circumstances and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to make relationship work. Rate your level of commitment to a relationship on the scale of one to ten and determine to make improvement where improvements are needed.

3. Dependability

Dependability is doing what you say you will do every time. People will never place their trust in you if they cannot believe what you say. Be on time every time unless you are delayed by things out of your control. Dependability results in showing consideration for others. Making others wait until you arrive shows inconsideration. Let your actions assure others that you are dependable.

4. Gratefulness

Showing gratitude is a rare quality that only a few have. Gratitude is a way of showing your love for another. It is not flattery; flattery is a lie directed toward manipulation and control while gratitude is showing your sincere appreciation.

5. Consistency

A moody person isn’t consistent. They may seem caring on one occasion and very uncaring on another occasion. They range from happy to sad, complacent to angry, withdrawn to outgoing, and loving to indifferent. It is difficult to respond to that sore of personality. Circumstances affect each of us, but to our relationships, we must be true. When people matter, it is of an essence to be consistent in areas that affect the relationship regardless of how we may feel at the time.


If you have a critical, judgmental attitude, recognize it and change before it wrecks your relationships. If you are keeping a record of the mistakes others are making, tear it up; instead, keep a record of your own mistakes, and then do something about it. Most of us need to change our way of being in the world rather than trying to change the world. It will improve our relationships exponentially.

Remember that trust has to be earned and that often takes time. It takes time to get to know someone and knowing someone is essential to building trust.


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Written by Jimmie Burroughs

We cannot afford to be mistaken on what it means to be a Christian. As someone said, “Eternity is too long to be wrong.”

Consider some of the mistaken things that people often confuse with Christianity:

  • live in a Christian country
  • parents were Christians
  • were dedicated as a child and confirmed later
  • walked down and isle during an invitation
  • prayed a prayer
  • church membership
  • believe in God
  • were baptized
  • live right
  • tithe income
  • do volunteer work for the church
  • attend church regularly
  • pray regularly and confess sins
  • join in a ritual of worship
  • abide by a legalistic set of rules of behavior
  • saw a vision from heaven

It might amaze you that you can do any or all of those things and still not be a Christian. Those things may be good things in themselves, (although a vision from heaven might be rather unusual) but they are not what make you a Christian. If your answer to what it means to be a Christian is based on the things you have done, you could have omitted true salvation.

According to the gospel of John, many believed on the name of Jesus, when He came to Jerusalem for the Passover, because of the miracles that He performed, but Jesus knew their heart. He knew their shallow belief did not include true faith in Him. He knew that in time, they would turn to follow Him no more: He knew all men, and had no need that anyone should testify of man, for He knew what was in man (John 2:24–25). Therefore, Jesus did not commit Himself to them. So it is today when anyone trusts in anything other than Jesus for salvation, He does not commit Himself to them. They are not truly of Him, and on the Day of Judgment he will say, Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.”

you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” (Matthew 7:22-23).The point is to be sure about what type your faith is, whether it is based on what you have done or what Jesus has done for you.

What is necessary to become a Christian? What do I have to do? God sent His Son, who did all which is necessary to become a Christian. It is not what a person does that makes them a Christian. It is by receiving what God has done for them. Jesus died to pay the penalty for our sins and arose from the grave. Jesus said on the cross “It is finished,” (John 19:30) meaning that the plan of salvation was complete. In the following article, what it means to be a Christian is defined, and the difference in becoming a Christian and being a Christian is distinguished.

Becoming a Christian requires regeneration

Regeneration means to make new or bring to new life. In the case of salvation, regeneration means making the spirit of man alive: “…even when we were dead through our trespasses, [God] made us alive together with Christ (by grace have ye been saved) (Ephesians 2:5).

Being made alive in spirit takes place when the Spirit of Christ comes into man’s spirit: “If anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him (Rom. 8:9). Regeneration is by the Spirit of Christ when he enters a person. If a person does not have the Spirit of Christ, according to the Scripture, he is not a Christian. Regeneration is not a result of what we do but of what we receive. “But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: ” (John 1:12).

Receiving means receiving the truth about Jesus. It means believing with the heart that Jesus is Lord and Savior and trusting Him for forgiveness and everlasting life: “For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation” (Romans 10:10). Salvation is not by rehearsing a scripted prayer. It is not the result of a prayer. It is the result of believing in the heart and then professing that belief with the mouth. The prayer of confession follows salvation. It does not cause it: Having believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise (Eph. 1:13). The Scripture says having believed, (not having prayed or having done anything else) results in salvation. Keep also in mind that it is not an intellectual assent to the gospel; it is a belief of the heart, not an intellectual belief. Many have a mental ascent. They will tell you that they believe in God and Jesus. In fact, about 84% of the population of the United States says they believe in God.

The Bible describes a Christian as being “A new man…,” (Eph. 4:24) being “In Christ and Christ in them… a new creature,” (II Corinthians 5:17). Those who experience no change in their life, fail to realize the reality of what God’s word says in those verses. It is those who claim to be Christian but who experience or demonstrate no change in their life that nullifies credibility and creates doubt concerning Christianity of the world about them.

I have just completed a biography of Louis Zamperini. Zamperini was an Olympic runner, who would likely become the first four-minute miler when the United States entered the Second World War, and the Olympics were canceled. Zamperini joined the Air Force and became a bombardier on a B24. After many successful bombing runs, his B24 crashed into the Pacific Ocean. He, and the pilot, spent 47 days adrift in a raft, drifting over two thousand miles before finally being captured near a Japanese occupied island. Zamperini was placed in a Japanese prison camp and later transferred from one camp to another. When he was repatriated at the end of the war, he had spent two and a half years as a POW. Finally reaching America, he became a drunk, struggling with nightmares, and unable to get past the horrible treatment that he received at the hands of the Japanese. One night, at a Billy Graham crusade in LA, he received Jesus. He experienced a change that revolutionized his life. He went home and poured out the liquor he had stored, trashed his cigarettes, and threw away his girly magazines. He never had another nightmare, and finally found peace. That is what the Bible means when it speaks of becoming a new creature, a new man. Laura Hillenbrand writes the Louis Zamperini biography, called “Unbroken” [1]. Unbroken was made into a movie in 2014, and in July the same year, Louis Zamperini passed away.

Receiving Christ is by invitation only: …Those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified (Romans 8:30).  The old hymn says:

Jesus is tenderly calling you home
Calling today, calling today,
Why from the sunshine of love will you roam,
Farther and farther away?

Many have already refused the invitation of the Savior and made their decision, rejecting Him and His offer for eternal life. For them there is no hope. If you are reading this article, I am persuaded better concerning you. For you “Jesus is tenderly calling…” If you hear His voice, do not delay; accept Him today. Becoming a Christian is a personal matter between you and God. It is up to you to accept His invitation and to come to Him in faith. Believe and receive Jesus Christ into your heart; be willing to confess your sins, turn from them, and follow Him.

Can you say, “Yes I do believe in Jesus and trust Him for forgiveness and desire to follow Him. If so, the Bible has a promise for you: “For God so loved the world that He sent His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16). In addition, those who believe in Jesus have the promise of His enduring power and presence in their life forever: “Lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age” (Matt. 28:20). Perhaps, right now is the first time in your life that you have fully accepted Jesus and believed in Him in your heart, if so, tell Him that you believe, turn from your sins, and trust Him to forgive you. Seek out a Bible believing church (This may take some time and investigation) then share with the pastor your faith in Jesus and ask to be baptized by emersion to express to the world your newfound faith in the Savior.

Being a Christian means to follow Jesus

Our culture has a work ethic, performance oriented, mentality. Therefore, It is understandable that we want to be able to take part in our salvation or in living the Christian life. It is somehow gratifying to think that by doing something, or behaving in a certain way, that we are contributing. However, what we contribute is flawed by the sinful Adamic nature; therefore, it is unacceptable to God’s perfect standard. Jesus taught His disciples, “Apart from me, you can do nothing,” (John 15:5) meaning that only what is done through the indwelling Spirit of Christ is acceptable to God.

Fleshly, human, effort is no longer efficient or needed. Christians serve by the power of the indwelling Spirit of Jesus. This is what the Apostle Paul meant in Galatians chapter 5: 16-18, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.” Jesus outlined what it means to live the Christian life: “Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me” (Matthew 16:24). Those that Jesus called, He also equipped. Jesus’ presence within is all the power needed to follow Him. “For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast” (Eph. 2:8, 9).

Paul describes what it means to follow Christ as bearing the fruit of the Spirit of Christ: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law” (Galatians 5:22, 23). If you try to copy those things by self-effort, you will find it impossible. Those are the result of the outworking of Gods presence—via the Holy Spirit—that resides within. The Bible declares that the Christian life result in “that the life of Jesus may be manifested in our mortal body” (II Cor. 4:10, 11). Not only is becoming a Christian by our self-effort something outside of possible but so is living the Christian life. It is all of God and from God. As Adrian Rogers often said, “Everything that goes to heaven comes from heaven.” That clearly eliminates all work of the flesh. Living the Christian life is not a result of trying hard to be like Jesus; rather, it is submitting ourselves to God by allowing Jesus to manifest His life through us.

Contrary to what some think and practice, living the Christian life is not accomplished by following certain rituals of worship or legalistic rules of Christian behavior. The beatitudes of Jesus, in the Sermon on the Mount, were not intended as a to-do list of things necessary to live the Christian life; they were a to-be list, the things that characterize the presence of Christ within. It is true that God wants to perfect us in our behavior. This is His work of sanctification (sanctification is a result of committing each thing about ourselves that needs improvement to God). As the Bible promises, “He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus” (Phil. 1:6). Nevertheless, the power to live the Christian life comes from God. In His last sermon on earth Jesus said, “You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you” (Acts 1:8). It is God, who causes us to be proficient. It is He, who provides “all sufficiency in everything” (II Cor. 9:8). Paul said, “We are not adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God” (II Corinthians 3:5). Paul gave the credit to Jesus for his Christian life, his ministry and everything when he said, “I do not presume to speak of anything except what Christ has accomplished through me” (Rom. 15:18).

Unlike what some unbelievers may think, being a Christian does not reduce life’s enjoyment, it enhances it. Jesus said, “I came that you might have life, and have it more abundantly” (John 10:10). Being a Christians certainly changes one’s desires: “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new” (II Corinthians 5:17). Our desire should be as the Apostle Paul’s desire, who said, “For me to live is Christ and for me to die is gain” (Phil. 1:21). Paul meant that Christ lived through him. Living a holy life is the kind of life God intended for His creation before sin entered the human race. It was a reflection of His perfect character. It is the absolute best way, we as God’s creation, can live a fulfilled life.

What it means to be a Christian:  It means having the living Spirit of Jesus indwelling you. It means a person’s behavior manifests Christ’s presence and brings glory to God.

I hope that this article has been a wake up call for you to make sure of your relationship to Christ. If you would like a detailed systematic instruction for receiving Christ as you Savior, please click here.

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Written by Jimmie Burroughs                                                       

According to a new poll by the United Press International, nearly half of those interviewed believed that 2015 would be a better year for them, and only one out of ten thought 2015 would be a worse year.

I became interested in this particular study about a year ago when a friend told me about a new book, “Harbinger,” [1] by Jonathon Cahn. He and some friends were using it as a group study, and he highly recommended it. I ordered the book from Amazon, and was very impressed with it, so I gave kind of an overview of it to a study group. It was well received, and some of the group read the book. This year, in November, a friend gave me a copy of Jonathon’s Cahn’s new book, “The Mystery of the Shemitah” [2], Once again very impressed, I decided  to write this article for the first publication on this website for the 2015.

In order to prepare you for the article, here are five questions for you to consider:

  1. Does the Bible address the future of America? In the past, most of us thought the answer to that question was no, but were we wrong?
  2. Is there any hope for America?
  3. Did God foresee the rise and fall of America, and has He given early warnings that so far have gone unheeded?
  4. Are the warnings that God gave Ancient Israel, 3,000 years ago, connected to modern America?
  5. Is it possible that those warnings have a bearing on recent events in America beginning on 9/11 2001?

Those are the questions that I want to try to answer in this article. You decide, by the time you finish reading it, what you believe.

Harbinger (Harbinger means warning) is wound around an obscure verse of Scripture found in the Old Testament book of Isaiah, Isaiah 9:10. If you’re like most, you may never have noticed this verse.

“The bricks are fallen down, but we will build with hewn stones: the sycamores are cut down, but we will change them into cedars.”

This was Israel’s response to a warning God had given them. God’s warning was that Israel was to turn from their Idols, so He allowed the Assyrians to Attack them for a wake up call. They ignored God’s warning, as well as the wake call, and instead took the attitude of defiance, as is clearly indicated in the verse above.

In order to understand the meaning of Isaiah 9:10, it is necessary to have knowledge of its context. After we clarify the context, we will see what connection the verse may have to Modern America.


Israel did three things to trigger God’s warning:

  1. They turned from God to idols.
  2. They ignored the Shemitah.
  3. They did not heed God’s warnings.

They turned from God to idols:

In Ezekiel 23, the prophet Ezekiel tells the people a parable of two sisters who were harlots, Oholah and Oholibah. In the parable, metaphorically, Oholah represented Samaria, the capitol of the Northern Kingdom, and Oholibah represented Jerusalem, the capital of the Southern kingdom. These two prostitutes represented the spiritual adultery of the two kingdoms. Both Israel and Judah turned away from the Living God to worship idols made by hand, idols of the Canaanites. God had commanded Israel, when they first entered the promise land, to drive the Canaanites out of the land. When Israel refused to do so but instead turned to the idols of the Canaanites, God turned Israel, the northern kingdom, over to Assyria, and Judah, the southern kingdom, was turned over to Babylon. It was their descent into idolatry that brought judgment as well as their defiance of God’s law.

The Canaanites were pagans. Their religion was polytheistic, or in other words, they worshiped many false gods. Over 30 false gods, or idols, are mentioned in Scripture. Here are three that are probably most familiar:

  • Baal, a generic term, means lord or master, a term used for any number of Israel’s gods.
  • Molech, god of fire: Leviticus 18:21 refer to Israel as causing their children “to pass through the fire to Molech.” There are several artist conceptions of Molech. One is a brass idol with the body of a man and a head of a bull, about fifteen or twenty feet tall including the throne on which he is seated. His arms are outstretched and tilted slightly downward. When a child was placed on his outstretched arms, it would roll into a fire pit and be burned alive, as the child screamed, the drums beat, and musicians played. This is a hideous example of how depraved a person, or a nation, can become when they turn from God.
  • Ashtoreth, god of fertility: Pagan idolatry always included sex with worship that included all types of deviation including homosexuality. Israel embraced homosexuality as normal and included it in their worship. They had their temple prostitutes, both men and women, whose lodging was next to the temple. They accommodated the worshipers.

They Ignored the shemitah:

According to the law God gave Moses on Mount Sinai, the Children of Israel were commanded to honor the seventh day and keep it holy. It was to be a day of rest from their labors, just as God also rested on the seventh day after he made the heavens and the earth (Exodus 20:11).

The law also commanded the Israelites to allow the land to rest every seventh year (Exod. 23:10-11; Lev. 25:1-7). The Sabbath year was known as the “Shemetah,” which means seven or Sabbath. No crops were to be planted and nothing was to be harvested. The lands became public lands where anyone could gather whatever food grew on its own. The shemitah also touched the financial:

“At the end of every seven years all debts were canceled. This is how it is to be done: Every creditor shall cancel any loan he has made to a fellow Israelite. He shall not require payment from his fellow Israelite or brother, because the Lord’s time for canceling debts has been proclaimed” (Deut. 15:1-2).

During the Sabbath year, God provided for the farmers and those who labored on the land. He said,” I will send you such a blessing in the sixth year, that the land will yield enough for three years. While you plant during the eighth year, you will eat from the old crop, and will continue to eat from it until the harvest of the ninth year comes in” (Leviticus 25:21–22).

For 490 years, Israel and Judah, together, violated the shemitah. Divide 490 by 7 and you get 70 years of shemitah, which were neglected, the amount of time Judah spent in Babylonian captivity. God provided three years of gain during the sixth year and did not renege on His promise, however, Israel was greedy and omitted the Shemitah, putting even more gain in their pockets.

They rejected God’s warning, sent through His Prophets.

God warned both Israel and Judah for 19 years before He finally said, it’s enough, time for judgment. Israel, beginning with the attack in 732 BC and over the following 10 years, were taken into Assyrian captivity. In 586 BC, God allowed the Babylonians to siege Jerusalem and they were carried away.

God’s messengers, the prophets, pleaded with the Israelites to turn from their sins and their idolatry, and promised them if they did that, they could stay in the land. God said through His prophet Jeremiah, “Turn now, each of you, from your evil ways and your evil practices, and you can stay in the land the Lord gave to you and your ancestors for ever and ever. Do not follow other gods to serve and worship them; do not arouse my anger with what your hands have made. Then I will not harm you” (Jeremiah 25:5-6). Israel ignored the prophets of God and choose instead to go their own way; therefore, they invited God’s judgment.


The connection between Isaiah 9:10 and America was revealed beginning with 9/11 2001, but first, what is the connection between ancient Israel and America?

When the Pilgrims and the Puritans landed at Plymouth, Massachusetts, they considered America as New Israel, and they dedicated the new found world to honor God and vowed to worship Him alone.

Fast-forward to the inauguration of George Washington, America’s first president, April 30, 1789; it was on the balcony of Federal Hall in New York City, that the inaugural took place. Federal Hall was the first U.S. Capitol and the site where the first United States  Congress met.

On the same day of his inauguration, after the oath had been administered In 1789, newly inaugurated President, George Washington, gave a prophetic warning: He declared, “America’s prosperity and protection were dependent upon its adherence to God” [3].

He, the Vice President, members of the Senate, and House of Representatives, proceeded to St. Paul’s Chapel, only a few blocks from the nation’s capital. From there they dedicated the new nation to God [4]. That little chapel still stands today, though by a miracle. It sits on the corner of the same property where the twin towers once stood and where the new World Trade Center now stands. When the bricks of the twin towers came falling down, the chapel only received minor damage. However, a sycamore tree on the property was cut down by flying debris. The sycamore tree was later replaced using a stronger tree in the Cedar family. Does that ring a bell? Wasn’t that also what Israel decided to do? After a ceremony of dedication, the new tree was named “Tree of hope,” a hope based on America’s own initiative, not God’s help, as was the case with George Washington, the nation’s first president.

The hedge of protection removed

When Israel entered the promise land, they were not trained warriors, and they were ill equipped to fight a war. Nevertheless, they quickly and easily defeated the Canaanites and drove them out of the land, at least some of them. How were they able to do this? God fought for them and placed His hedge of protection around them to protect them from the enemy.

When Israel turned from God to the same idols the Canaanites worshiped and defied God’s covenant, God removed the hedge of protection and the Assyrians attacked in 732 BC. This could have been temporary if Israel had heeded God’s warning and repented, but they did not.

Instead of repenting and turning to God, Israel looked to themselves, and in defiance they said, “The bricks are fallen down, but we will build with hewn stones: the sycamores are cut down, but we will change them into cedars.” The buildings that were made of clay bricks would now be replaced with much stronger hewn stone; the Sycamore trees would be replanted with a stronger variety, the Cedar.

After decades of turning away from God, God also removed His protective hedge that kept America safe. After the terrorists attack of 9/11 and the bricks came falling down, the United States also pledged to build stronger. Using the same words as Ancient Israel, quoting Isaiah 9:10, “The bricks are fallen down, but we will build with hewn stones: the sycamores are cut down, but we will change them into cedars.” The new World Trade Center is said to be much stronger than the original. The possibility of the domino effect that brought down the twin towers has been eliminated, and today the new World Trade Center stands in all its glory as a symbol of America’s defiance. It wasn’t the rebuilding that was wrong but the attitude in which it was built.

As did Israel, America also has enjoyed God’s protection and blessings, growing to become the most successful and most powerful nation in history.

As did Israel, America also departed from God. Therefore, God removed His hedge of protection and then came 9/11. The day after the 9/11 attack, the US Congress met and the Speaker of the House of Representatives delivered a speech concerning the tragic attack by terrorist the day before. His speech centered on Isaiah 9:11, “The bricks are fallen down, but we will build with hewn stones: the sycamores are cut down, but we will change them into cedars.” Little did he know that he was pronouncing the same judgment on America that befell Israel some 3,000 years earlier. Over the following few days, several high in government used the same terms and ultimately also the President of the United States.

This year, thirteen years later, at the near completion of the new World Trade Center, another president, Barock Obama, attended a dedication ceremony of the new building. However, his comments were much different from George Washington, the first president of the United States and different from those of George Bush after the 9/11 attack. Instead of depending on God, as did George Washington, for God’s protection and blessings, Obama continued the same attitude of defiance as Israel.

Paraphrasing Isaiah 9:10, he scribbled on a steel beam, before it was hoisted to the top of the building, “We remembered, We rebuilt. We come back stronger.”  Unlike George Bush, it was no longer a statement of future intent. It was now stated in the present tense. America’s president had officially stamped his seal of approval on America’s defiance of God. No one seemed to understand that Isaiah 9:10 was stated by Israel in the attitude of defiance. So now, America was defiant. Instead of turning to God in repentance, asking Him for forgiveness, and help, they relied on their own power and initiatives, the same as ancient Israel had done.

As Israel had done, America also turned away from God. God was removed from the public square. The Ten Commandments were no longer welcome on or in any governmental space.

In 1962, the Bible and prayer were banned from public schools.

In 1973, abortion on demand became law. Israel had sacrificed their thousands; until now, America has sacrificed over fifty million unborn babies for the sake of convenience.

America has now embraced a new code of moral ethics to fit modern day, broadminded people. Believers were told to put aside the Bible as the guide for moral ethics and accept America’s new moral code. Laws were written to enforce compliance to the new moral code of ethics, with the threat of fines and or imprisonment for those who refused. I don’t think it is necessary to detail what is meant here.

Morals in America eroded over a few decades to an all time new low, and those who still hold to a belief in God have become a joke and are ridiculed for their ignorance, and referred to as homophobic, religious nuts, and fanatics. However, after 9/11, droves of people returned to the church to pray for America, and for a while, it looked as if there would be a new great awakening in America, but it was short lived and people returned to the way things were before and even worse. The drift away from God continued. America had ignored God’s warning.

The Terrorists

Amazingly, God used the same rod that judged Israel to judge America. He used the terrorists. In the chapter that followed Israel’s statement of defiance, God said, “O Assyrian, the rod of mine anger, and the staff in their hand is mine indignation,” (Isaiah 10:5).

The ancient Assyrians were the father of terrorism and were feared by every nation. They used terrorism to accomplish their means, and flayed resistors alive and nailed their skins to the wall.

The terrorists of today are the descendants of those ancient Assyrians. The headquarters for the ISIS was Mosul, Iraq, (recently moved to an unknown location) which is just across the Tigris River from the ancient ruins of Nineveh, the capitol of the Assyrians. The terrorists who flew the 737 jet liners into the twin towers, could well have been of the same bloodline as those Ancient Assyrians. They spoke Arabic, which is the closest language to the Assyrian language, and their tactics were the same.

The Shemitah effect

The attack on 9/11 was just a beginning, which resulted in the stock market shutting down. When the stock market re-opened, seven days later, it sparked a downward turn, which went on record as the worse one-day drop in the market’s history.

By 2008, seven years later, the stock market had regained its strength just in time for the second financial implosion, which surpassed the one seven years earlier, to become the worse one-day drop in the history of the stock market.

Jonathan Cahn, paints and interesting correlation of events surrounding 9/11, using the number seven.  He shows in his book, “The Mystery of the Shemitah,” a connection between 9/11, and the events which followed, to the Shemitah (The Shemitah was the seventh year in which the land was to rest in Israel and all financial debts were wiped away, according to Jewish law).

Counting backwards from September 17, 2008, the final day of the seventh year of Shemitah when the second financial implosion occurred. According to the Jewish calendar, this was on Elul 29,  the culmination of Shemitah in which all financial debts were canceled. On that day, at the ringing of the final bell at 4:00PM, the stock market had lost 7% of its value, topping the financial implosion seven years earlier as the worse one-day drop in the stock market in its history.

Counting backward seven years to the day and hour September 29, 2001 at 4:00PM, was the first financial implosion after 9/11, resulting in a 7% loss of the value of the stock market, which amounted to 777.7 points, which also occurred on Elul 29.

Counting back seven days to 4PM on Tuesday September 11, 2001, brings us to the day the two airliners struck the twin towers.

Counting back seven hours brings us to a seventeen-minute span of time in which both airliners struck the twin towers.

Counting back in segments of 7 minutes each brings us to 8:46 AM, September 11, 2001, the exact minute when the first plane struck the first tower.

I don’t know the statistical odds for all these events lining up perfectly in a series of sevens, but I can imagine it would include a long string of zeroes.  I believe that it is far more than coincidence. Only God has perfect control of the timing of events.

The present Shemitah

While America is not obligated to observe the Shemitah, that doesn’t keep God from using it as a reference. Seven years since the last financial implosion in 2008, commenced the next Shemitah beginning September 2014 and continuing through September 2015. This is the third Shemitah since 9/11 occurred fourteen years ago. Fourteen years ago, it was 9/11. Seven years later it was the worse one-day implosion of the stock market in history.  Does this mean that since America has ignored the past warnings and continued its departure from God, that another calamity is coming in the culmination of the Shemitah in 2015 or perhaps sooner?

Date setting is not the point and is not what I’m emphasizing. In fact, in 2015, nothing may happen in proportion to 9/11 and the following two implosions of the stock market. The point is that America needs to repent and turn to God while there is time.

The Northern Kingdom of Israel never repented and they were defeated and carried away into Assyrian captivity, never to be a nation again.

The southern kingdom of Judah never repented and was carried away into Babylonian captivity for 70 years so the land could enjoy its rest. Judah did return after 70 years to the land and rebuilt the temple and Jerusalem, but for 2,500 years they were under the control of other nations and only became an autonomous nation again in 1948.

Will America wake up in time and repent, or will it follow the same course as Israel and Judah? Only time will tell. Pray for America.


There are many who are fearful of what 2015 may bring and with good reason.

It isn’t my intentions to scare you, but quiet to the contrary, it is to encourage you. The Bible tells us, who are believers, “And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” (John 4:16-18)

However, for America, the big question remains when you consider all that is happening in the United States and abroad, “What does the future hold for America in 2015 and beyond?” Will America be weakened by internal problems to the point of a possible collapse? There are many unsolved problems in the United States, and there seems to be no viable solution on the horizon to any of these complex problems. It’s not necessary to predict the future to realize that 2015 could be very challenging and become one of the most difficult times America has encountered. Neither is it necessary to invent reasons why this may be the case. The causes are already in place:

  1. The racial issue in America is growing.
  2. There is uneasiness concerning financial problems both domestically and nationally.
  3. The economy is still unstable, even though it experienced strong growth in the last quarter.
  4. The viability of the dollar as a world currency is shaky.
  5. America’s indebtedness is growing rapidly and may already be beyond the point of no return.
  6. We have been involved in wars that we cannot afford. For the last 13 years, it has been a war with the terrorists, which has no end in sight and more than likely will last until the end of time.

There is not space to comment on all the above. However, to give you an idea of how serous times are, according to a new survey by the personal finance website,, Americans are in a financial straight, with 62% not having the available cash to pay for a $1,000 emergency or a $500 car repair. Most Americans are living from paycheck to paycheck. Any kind of a recession now would be devastating, much worse that the previous one. According to many of those polled, all of their savings were depleted to survive the last financial downturn. Saving is far more difficult for most because they are too far in debt.

As I mentioned earlier, a shemitah year began at sunset on Sept. 24, 2014 and will end at sunset on Sept. 12, 2015. If the next 12 months don’t result in serious trouble for our country, it will only be due to the grace of God, because America for generations has been in rebellion towards God, deliberately abandoning His principles and attributing His blessings to our own ingenuity.

America has been blessed more than any other nation in history because in the past we have honored God and lived according to Word, the Bible.  As soon as America stopped honoring God and started depending on their own initiatives, God’s blessings began to diminish.

Is There Hope For America?

Perhaps there is hope for the time being and the near future, But According to the Bible, America’s final destiny is to be completely destroyed, along with all other nations among which God’s people Israel have been dispersed (Jeremiah 30:11).

There are more Jews dispersed to America than all other of the world’s largest countries combined, with the exception of Israel. There are over two million Jews in New York City alone, over twice the number of Jews that are in Jerusalem. There are as many Jews in New York City and LA as was led out of Egyptian bondage by Moses. America has no national covenant with God, as did Israel. Nevertheless, God’s people, those who are believers, do have a covenant relationship with Him through Jesus Christ our Lord. Therefore, we will be saved from the final destruction that is to come on America, and we shall live with God eternally.

God also has promised to deliver Jews from the time and place of America’s complete destruction, and from all other nations were Israel has been dispersed. “For I am with you,’ declares the LORD, ‘to save you; For I will destroy completely all the nations where I have scattered you, Only I will not destroy you completely. But I will chasten you justly And will by no means leave you unpunished.’which will come during the time of His Wrath,” (Jerimiah30:11), New American Standard Bible.

The time of God’s wrath takes place in a specific seven year period, called the tribulation that will begin on Earth shortly after the Lord takes His saints to His Father’s house in Heaven (John 14:2-3). Believers will be spared the wrath. “For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Thes. 5:9),And to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead, even Jesus, which delivered us from the wrath to come” (I Thes. 1:10).

Believers from around the world will join American believers and be delivered from God’s wrath, not claiming a country as their home but instead claiming citizenship in God’s heaven.

If America is all you call home, then you have every right to be worried about 2015 and beyond. However, if you claim heaven as your citizenship, you have genuine cause for hope. As citizens of heaven we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who by the power that enables Him to bring everything under His control, will transform our lowly bodies so they will be like His glorious body (Phil 3:20-21).

The Lord will come at a time when the world least expects Him, and we who are alive in Christ shall be caught up to be with Him (1 Thes. 4:16-17, 1 Cor. 15:51-53).

Here’s the thing: We need to rethink our stand for Jesus Christ now in the beginning of the New Year, 2015. For many of those who call themselves Christians, the church is only important when convenience allows. Their Bible gathers dust. The average Christian today couldn’t recite the 10 commandments if their life depended on it, nor could they list the 12 apostles by name or even tell you the seven churches mentioned in Revelation chapters 2 and 3. Out of the 84% of Americans who claim to be Christian, according to the 80/20 principle, only about 16% are truly believers, though there is no way we can know for certain the number of believers.

The Bible tells us that God does not wish that any should perish, but that all should repent, and come unto Him. You may be a church member, but perhaps you may not be among the true believers. I invite you to become one today. The Bible teaches that salvation is a result of believing in your heart that Jesus died for your sins and rose from the grave and then confessing that belief with you mouth and through the symbol of baptism. Baptism is a confession on your part to the world that Jesus died and arose.

I want you to pray the following prayer to God as a re-commitment to God if you are a true believer, and if you have doubts as to your relationship to God, pray the second part of the prayer.

Dear Lord, I realize that I need to re-commit myself to you. I want my priorities to be right in 2015. I want to center my purpose in life on you instead of my own selfish desires. Please give me a renewed, and stronger, faith in you. Amen.

Dear Lord, I believe in my heart that you died for my sins and rose from the grave, just as the Bible says. I ask that you forgive my sins, the sins that I’m willing turn from and no longer want to characterize my life. Help me to rely on you and place my faith and my hope in you alone. Amen.

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[1] “The Harbinger” By Jonathan Cahn,

[2] “The Mystery of the Shemitah” By Jonathon Cahn,


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“Even if toxic people are right about what is ‘good,’ they are wrong if the approach is not healthy.”
John L. Lund

“Capable of causing injury or death…” is the dictionary definition of toxic. Although this definition is pertaining to chemicals, it can also be applied to toxic people who can be very harmful and dangerous. Toxic people can harm you physically, mentally, spiritually, financially or emotionally. The following will give you some ideas on how to easily spot toxic people and deal with them.

Here are a dozen characteristics of toxic people that I have observed over the years:

  • They are constant complainers.
  • They blame others instead of taking or sharing the blame.
  • They constantly over-react.
  • They are aggressive and bully their way through life.
  • They will put you down to your face, even in the presence of others, as well as behind your back.
  • They project a lot of anger.
  • They are sensitive and defensive.
  • They are very controlling and manipulative.
  • They love to kill the dreams and joy of others.
  • They are very insecure and are jealous of anyone’s achievements.
  • They are disrespectful and inconsiderate.
  • They draw strength and resolve through their toxic behavior toward others.

I read an article, some time ago, about a foolish man who thought he could tame a poisonous Rattle Snake for a pet. He succeeded for a while until the snake bit him on the neck and he died. It may not be quiet so dangerous dealing with a toxic person, but it can be harmful and may be just as futile.

Here are some things you must know about toxic people in order to deal with them:

  • You cannot be their friend.
  • You cannot change them.
  • You cannot trust them.
  • You must not let them control your emotions.
  • You must not allow them to have power over you.

There is only one fully, effective and viable solution for dealing with a toxic person and that is to lessen their presence in your life. This may be difficult if they are a spouse, your children, close relatives, or they happen to be a coworker or supervisor. If this is the case, you will need to be very creative as to how you deal with it, but deal with it you must if you are to have peace in your life. It is true that life is too short to have to constantly deal with a toxic person, but sometimes it must be done. Since you cannot control the other person’s behavior and they are unwilling to change their behavior, you must change your own. If you cannot lessen their presence, then you must find ways to repel their toxic behavior. It may require outside counseling or even making decisions that are very difficult to make.

I had a friend once that was married to a toxic person. He could have been a really, good person, but his wife made him miserable, and some of her toxic ways rubbed off on him. He believed strongly in keeping his marriage in tack, therefore, he finally only managed to escape her evil presence through his own death, which I believe was premature because of his long years of suffering at her hand.

Once again, there is no fully acceptable remedy for dealing with a toxic person other than lessening their presence in your life. Since that isn’t always possible, you must work out your own redemption. Considering that each circumstance is different and the extent of toxicity varies from one person to another, there is no set plan that works for each individual. Learn all of your options and then determine your course of action.  Read as much as you can about toxic people including those with NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). Perhaps you can learn enough that fits your particular situation to, at least, co-exist. Remember, the change will have to be you. The toxic person will never consider any change because they believe that they are perfect and that any failure is your fault. In fact, they may refuse to recognize that they are toxic at all and if they do, they will refuse to make any change. I don’t believe in divorce, but it seems that it is the only workable solution sometimes when a spouse is a toxic person. Since you can’t divorce your parents or children, there has to be other workable solutions. If it is a toxic person at work, you may find another job, but that may only take you into the presence of another toxic person, therefore, it may not be the solution either. In the end, your only solution may be to work it out with the people involved as best you can. I know that this may seem impossible, but if it is the only option, you can only do your best. I’ve had to do this, and I can assure you that it takes a lot of your energy and brings some unavoidable pain. Remember, what ever your decision, do not let a toxic person have power over you to ruin your life, or they will do just that.

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“If you want to avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, and be nothing.” Aristotle

Our pastor was sharing with us last Sunday how difficult it is to be a pastor these days. He said that it did not really matter what he did there were always those who had something negative to say about it. He was right. Just as the quote above states, when you take action, which can be just opening your mouth, be prepared for criticism.

No one likes criticism, nevertheless, it is a fact to be dealt with. If you are creative, you will be criticized. Keep in mind that not all criticism is bad. In fact, you may find some good in all criticism. Even hateful, malicious criticism may contain something worth considering. Before you discard any criticism, even from those whose intent is to hurt you, be sure to skim off any nugget of truth that might be helpful to you. Sometimes we cannot see the trees for the forest as the saying goes. In other words, we are sometimes too much a prisoner to subjectivity, or even ego, to see the objective truth.

Be truthful to yourself, and try to see yourself as you are, and improve in the areas that need improvement when suggestions are made. This does not take away from the confidence that you have but only adds to it. There is however a caution: Be Careful not to be subdued by others, made to feel inadequate, brought down, or allow them to spoil your contentment.

Critical people have different motives. Some actually want to help you by pointing out things that you might have overlooked. Others may be jealous and want to bring you down to their own level. Some may be cruel and just want to hurt others when the opportunity presents itself. Being able to discern the valued or unvalued of criticism will enable you either to disregard it or carefully consider it to your own good.

It is important to give constructive criticism as well as to receive it. It is the positive approach to solving problems. It can apply to work or to personal behavior. When it is given, timing as well as delivery is crucial if it is to be well received. For example, if what someone says or does makes you angry, that is not the time to hand out criticism; it most certainly is not likely to be well received. If criticism makes you angry, wait before you address it or until you are calm. If criticism is given in a caring way, it will be more likely heeded.

A constructive approach to criticism builds the other person up by pointing out something positive and then includes suggestions for improvement. This is the attempt to help others, not hurt them or bring them down.

The receiver of criticism should also be noble and receive criticism with detachment. Constructive criticism’s intent is to help. If we ignore it without careful consideration, we may bring harm, hurt or even unnecessary suffering to ourselves.

Not everyone is adept in giving criticism, even constructive criticism. Therefore, it behooves each of us to be adept in receiving it. For example, a person my have valuable critical suggestions but their tone and style of giving it may be atrocious. It is therefore important to separate a person’s emotion from what they have to say and consider instead the value of their suggestion.

If we value only praise, which can or cannot be sincere, we miss the opportunity to grow through helpful criticism. The key is learning not to take everything people say personal. I am more than my work, my appearance or even my words. When others criticize, they are not touching the total person that I am but only a small aspect of who I am, or it could be entirely outside of me. For example, if I build a birdhouse that does not look so good, it only means that my carpentry skills need improving but has nothing to do with the person that I am. It is totally outside of who I am.

The big question is how do we deal with the false criticism that comes our way? If we are discerning, it is easier to deal with the false criticism than with that which is true. False criticism does not deserve any response in which to give it credibility or energy. Just like some people need to be deleted, if subscribers, or ignored or distanced. Jesus said of the critical Pharisees of His day, “Leave them alone.” Life is too precious to allow uncouth, negative and hateful people to disturb it. Better not to allow your dignity be ruffled by these kinds of people. Others will respect you more for it.

When you are criticized, be sure to keep your composure. Do not let it upset you or cause you to act or say things that are negative. Smile if you can, and let the person know, in a kindly way, that you will consider their suggestion. Kindness is always the best defense. It will bring the other person’s guards down faster than anything you can say or do.

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